Patricia (Pat) Tottingham


Patricia (Pat) Tottingham died peacefully after her battle with cancer, surrounded by family and friends on Wednesday, April 12, 2023 in her home at One Oak Place. Pat was born on March 28, 1940 in Enderlin ND to Genevieve and Clinton Ford. She had two younger sisters, Mary and Helen. Pat met the love of her life, Rex Tottingham and they were married on November 15, 1958 in Enderlin ND. They had three daughters, Mona, Jill and Dena. Rex and Pat’s home in Jamestown for over 50 years became a gathering place for neighbors and friends. Because of her welcoming personality many people in her life, she referred to as “family.” Pat spent her days on the golf course, in her garden, baking, listening to music and playing pinnacle. Rex and Pat recently moved to One Oak Place in Fargo where they quickly met a whole new group of people they could also call friends.

Pat was survived by her husband Rex, daughters Mona Tottingham, Jill (Randy) Pagel, Dena (Kevin) Pagel, grandchildren Derek, Alec, Lucas, Haley and Paige. Great grandchildren Lilly, Aubriana, Skylar, Brady, Garrison, Leo and Beau. Sisters Mary Thomason, Helen (Carroll) Wentland.

Preceded in death by her mother, Genny and father, Clint, and her grandson Dylan.

A Celebration of Life was held where they lived at One Oak Place, 1709 25th Ave S, Fargo ND on Sunday, April 16, 2023.

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